Sometimes my heart hurts and then I feel ashamed because I know it hurts as a result of my own choices.
So then there is this shame cycle and it sucks. That’s probably why am feeling so strong about not shaming each other today, I’m just realizing how much it can run my own thoughts and behaviors when I’m not paying attention.
And sometimes, when I am feeling very ashamed and not acknowledging or aware of it, I push my shame off onto somebody else. That’s not awesome.
The cool thing…the moment I recognize this and want change more than comfort, my path to freedom begins.