| I NOW WANT |
IN THE PAST, I’VE BEEN ATTRACTED TO |
| LOYAL | NAUGHTY; REBELLIOUS |
| TRUSTWORTHY | LACK OF HEALTHY EMOTION |
| POETIC/PASSIONATE | TALL |
| INTELLIGENT/EDUCATED | THIN |
| SPIRITUAL | FUNNY |
| GIVER | NOT TRUSTWORTHY |
| HILARIOUS | INSECURE |
| WARM/JOYFUL | NOT SPIRITUAL |
| KIND | LIVES BELOW ABILITIES |
| OUTGOING | SELFISH/ME FIRST |
| TEDDY BEAR OF A GUY | UNSTABLE FAMILY |
| TALL | POOR BOUNDARIES |
| THOUGHTFUL | LACK OF RESPECT FOR SELF/OTHERS |
| COMPASSIONATE | NO SPOILING ME |
| LOVING, ENGAGED W/ FAMILY | RIGID |
| SOCIALLY AWARE | BLACK AND WHITE |
| MORAL COMPASS | IRRITABLE |
| INTEGRITY | GRUMPY ASSHOLES |
| REALITY OVER PORN | THEY ‘NEED’ ME |
| CONSISTENT W/ EMOTIONS | ANGER IS DOMINANT EMOTION |
| SPOILS ME | SOLEMN |
| SPONTANEOUS | SECRETIVE |
| SMELLS YUMMY | DISHONEST |
| PATIENT | WITHDRAWN |
| CAN HANDLE EMOTIONS | PORN OVER REALITY |
| UNDERSTANDING | I AM NOT A PRIORITY |
| ROMANTIC | MAJOR POWER IMBALANCE |
| ATTENTIVE | NOT IN IT FOR THE LONG HAUL |
| LOVES MY FAMILY | NOT AS SOCIAL |
| OPEN | STRUGGLES WITH AUTHORITY |
| RESILIENT | SUBSTANCE ABUSE/SOME DRUG OF CHOICE |
| TWINKLY EYED & SWEETLY MISCHEVIOUS | LACK OF PASSION/DRIVE |
I created this list on a whim about a year ago. A friend challenged me to write down what I want in a partner and then write what I tend to choose. I was not to think about it and just wrote what was on my heart. Pretty much the same today. Lots to ponder.
SUNKISSED SOUL 